Keep your friends close and your enemies.....
The last few months have been an eye opener for us all, no one expected what was about to hit us in March and even when it did not many of us took it seriously.
Then came the lockdown, a time when most of us had to adapt to a new way of life, of socializing, of engaging with others and well, with just about everything we did.
Now months on, life starting to get back to the new normal and many of us took the lockdown period to re-evaluate various parts of our life from our eating habits, spending, education, personal relationships and friendships.
If you did not take the last few months as an opportunity to rewind and analysis the friendships and relationships you have had a little niggling feeling about, then you wasted valuable time, do that evaluation now before it’s too late.
Let’s face it, not everyone is who they portray themselves to be, some are just shitbags with fake angel wings!
Think about those niggling little feelings you have had about someone, rewind and replay incidents involving them, things they may have said or done, expressions, messages, actions and you may suddenly realise that some of the people you thought were close to you are actually bad for you!
The simple fact is that some people who walk around on a fluffy cloud and portray themselves to be sweeter than sweet are manipulating liars. Many of those who spout fake positivity are in many cases the negative force in your life, and maybe the time has come to cut those poisonous roots before they tangle and throttle your happiness.
If nasty people smelt of shit, we would all avoid them, but sadly some wear nice clothes, have nice hair and portray a life that disguises their true bitterness. If you scratch at their surface their true odor escapes and if you take time to take a deep breath you will realize it is a smell you do not want near you again.
There is an old saying “keep your friends close and your enemies closer”
If 2020 has taught me anything it has been to keep my friends close and tell my enemies to fuck right off!